Thursday, August 14, 2025

Pretty Lies, Ugly Truths: The Push to Pair Black Women with White Men

                                          

Black Women, We Have Been Duped.

This will always be a space for truth without the fluff. My only aim here is to get you to think beyond what’s been placed in front of you — beyond the distractions, beyond the programming.

Lately, there’s been a loud push for interracial dating — specifically Black women with white men. Twenty years ago? Even five years ago? This wasn’t the narrative. So why now?

Ask yourself: why isn’t this same push happening for other women of other cultures? Why are Black women suddenly the faces of this union — with the very men who have historically been our oppressors?

You cannot hold an oppressor accountable while lying beside him. You cannot dismantle a system you’ve chosen to join at the most intimate level.

The Agenda

We’ve mastered working in systems built by white people, but that was never the point. Their education was designed to train us into service, not free us.

Now, the same system that keeps us at the bottom is pushing to “unionize” with us. Is it love — or infiltration?

Bobby Hemmitt said it best: “Your oppressor will never announce their day of battle.” They will not come as an enemy. They will come as a friend, as an equal, offering comfort and playing to your desires, presenting themselves as “better” than Black men. When you’ve held an entire group back while elevating yourself into stolen positions of power, of course you look appealing.

Has Anything Changed?

Decades of these pairings — and has our collective global position shifted? Are these men uniting with other white men to dismantle the systems that harm us? No.

Most Black women in these relationships don’t demand accountability — especially those who’ve been given a “comfortable” life. But comfort is an illusion. Comfort breeds delusion. And delusion is exactly what keeps us from waking up.

The Truth They Hide

We are nothing like white people. We are of higher position — and they know it. That’s why they spend so much energy stealing, suppressing, and rewriting our truth. Their only hope is that you never self-actualize.

The “love is love” narrative is theirs, too. And maybe the reason our love doesn’t mirror theirs is because our love is different — rooted in a divine origin they’ve worked to erase.

This isn’t about romance. It’s about access: to your womb, your lineage, your culture, your power.

This Is Spiritual War

Remaining in this mindset is spiritual suicide. This is a calculated move — a spiritual destiny swap.

Ask yourself: when have we ever truly been safe? When has the oppressor ever provided real protection?

We’ve been fighting the wrong battles — chasing political wins and physical objectives that only recreate their stolen system with a new face. That’s low-level work.

We are greater than that.

It’s time to harness our spiritual power, reclaim what’s been stolen, and move into the spaces they’ve kept from us for far too long.

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