Future of Black Women and Girls

Lately, I've been deeply immersed in my creative flow, embracing a new challenge: operating with ease while still accomplishing the tasks I set for myself each day. Every morning, I start by setting my intentions—defining a clear purpose before I even begin. Although I’m still adjusting to this schedule and discovering my rhythm, I’m learning to trust myself more. I’ve noticed that once I start and focus kicks in, I’m able to achieve what I set out to do. Framing my goals as intentions has changed my perspective, allowing me to approach each day with clarity. Before setting my schedule and writing out my to-do list, I now take a deliberate pause. This ensures that the tasks I plan are realistic and achievable.  What started as a simple routine has become something I genuinely look forward to every morning and afternoon. It’s a chance to track my progress, reflect on daily distractions, and identify areas for improvement. And, if I’m being honest, one of my biggest challenges ha...

Its September 5, 2024 and well, its been a time gettings started however, here we are. I am thankful for the progress I continue to make daily. At times, if I'm honest, it can be slow and challenging BUT I am working on changing that. This post, marks a point where I refuse to over think it and just simply take action. To take action, is to move toward my goals. However sometimes, this can look a little different for me. Sometimes, I struggle with knowing which actions are the right actions? I will tell you since I've left my 9-5, this continues to be a question I ask myself, a question that I still find myself looming over. I know that action must be taken but how do I know what's the "right" action for me. For my path? Can anyone even tell me that? I know that my business ventures don't even reflect a lot of the conventional steps that society processes. What I mean is, I reconize there are many patterns and steps people tend to take that meet a specific typ...

It's 2024, and the world continues to be in the midst of a major shift. From the way we work to the way we live, everything is changing. I am grateful for the change, even though my situation is less than ideal. However, I find gratitude in the simplicity of life. I know things could be more challenging, so I find the courage to be grateful even when things don’t go as planned. Intuitively, I feel a strong pull to write my book. Personally, I don’t consider myself much of a writer, but if I’m honest, when I reflect on my life over time, one thing remains consistent: writing. Ever since I can remember, writing has been a part of my life. From a high school instructor who made daily writing a requirement to passing notes with friends in a three-ring binder, writing has been something I’ve always done—and it seems to have stuck with me. I’ve spent a few days thinking about it, and I’ve decided I’m just going to go for it. It’s not as if I don’t have something to say—because I do. The ...

I think I'm caught in the whirlwind of driven behavior, causing me to avoid dealing with the things I don't want to face. Catching myself and hearing this woman recount the signs of this behavior really hit me in the face. I was online searching for this moment, this feeling, after receiving an email from a company advising me that they would be moving forward with another candidate. Typically, I am not bothered by this, as it's part of the process when it comes to career searching, and I know it's all par for the course. What makes this time different is that I want to catch myself, to recognize this feeling. What am I really doing? The truth is, it's something I've done for a long time to cope. Sometimes, I feel like I'm afraid to have those open blocks of time. It can even be pretty uncomfortable for me. However, I am going to counteract this behavior by setting a goal for the end of the week: to give myself three tasks a day to fulfill every day next wee...

It’s been quite the week… I would say the past two weeks. I have essentially started two more businesses while also continuing to think up ideas and consider the future of Black women and girls and what that will look like for us. I will say that something has to change, and fast. I continue to listen to stories of women of color all around the world who continue to have the same, if not very similar, experiences when working in corporate “traditional” America. It’s like this time of me facing the fact that it’s simply the fact that its not us, its this “system” we’ve all been forced to participate in. Not to mention while many others tend to receive some degree of support that same support lacks severely for the majority of black women. What concerns me is the fact we have young girls who continue to come behind us and are too being subjected to this same very volatile behavior while trying to create a life of stability in a system that’s severely unstable for herself. It makes me ask...

I hope to build a lucrative beauty and lifestyle brand for Black women and women of color. Why? Because we deserve a platform that truly reflects our beauty and essence. My version of self-care includes doing the internal work—working on myself continuously. It’s not just a moment or a day; it’s a lifelong process, a life’s work. I am coming into my own and learning to stand by my business authentically. It’s interesting how everyone wants Black women to twist themselves for everyone else, but don’t want us to be ourselves and mind our own business. I always wonder what would happen if Black women said to society, “You know what, get somebody else to do it?” What would the world become? I often think about the trajectory of our future. My mind constantly works on solving problems, envisioning a lucrative future for us and young girls. This might seem out of alignment with the rest of the world, and that’s okay. I imagine a world where Black women can flex big and glow bright in our own...

Speaking to my friend this morning, we begin to discuss these very dynamics that I speak on here on the blog. Our future. She immediately understood and like so many of you and myself, she too have experienced these harsh dynamics in the workplace. And through our discussion, we both agreed that yes change is indeed essential. Critical for the future of young girls. I realize that in that very moment, everything, every job that I’ve ever held was leading me here - to this moment in my life. That I understand clearly, more has to be done. That just saving myself wouldn’t essentially be enough but I want to reconstruct the way and how we do business where we also create opportunities for black women and other women of color. Thinking about the younger girls coming up, its something that truly resonates with me.  I believe we are in the mist of change and opportunity simultaneously. 2024 is lifting the veil of lies and bringing light to truth. I also notice that many of societys sy...