Future of Black Women and Girls

  And why do we continue to seek acceptance in a system that has never meant well for us? What is it with this way of thinking? I often ask myself: do most not see the “carrot,” the constant moving of the needle, and when society is clearly taking Black women for a ride? I believe it’s time for a new path. Rather than constantly working within a system that refuses to be reasonable, fails to provide the results we seek, and continues to keep us stuck, why not think differently about paving an entirely new way? Black women are the blueprint. With every system currently corrupt, I see nothing but opportunity for Black women and girls to finally carve out our space in society in a major way. This might sound like a big feat, but I beg you to hear me out before assuming otherwise. Since we are the blueprint, we essentially have the right to change things. We can change the plan to one that is more favorable—beginning with ourselves as Black women. With many of us in rest mode, this ...

Tonight, I decided to rewatch  The Matrix  for the millionth time. This film is a classic in its own right, filled with layers of meaning and timeless messages that continue to resonate with audiences. As I watched, I couldn’t help but reflect on something I learned a few years ago: that  The Matrix  was allegedly written by a Black woman, Sophia Stewart. At first, this claim didn’t seem far-fetched to me at all, especially after I read about how Stewart’s work was said to have been copied by the Wachowski brothers, who went on to create the blockbuster film. I even watched several of Stewart’s interviews, where she discussed not only her writing of  The Matrix , but also her involvement in the creation of  The Terminator  movies. Her ability to weave herself into the story and speak so confidently about her creative process deeply intrigued me. As I reflected more, I thought about how society has yet to fully acknowledge the brilliance of writers and ...

For too long, many of us have been so burdened by the pressures of survival in this society that we haven’t had the space to even imagine a new world for ourselves. In a society that often values us only for our labor, we’ve never been afforded the opportunity to consider what life could look like beyond just getting by. I will say this: Black women have done a remarkable job of sustaining, but this resilience proves we can rise above the demands of society. The reality is, we shouldn’t have to. The future is undeniably bright for Black women and girls, but we must be willing to step into a new way of thinking and acting. For generations, Black women have been carrying the weight, doing it all for everyone else. But now, it's time to do it for ourselves—for our own futures and those of the women and girls who come after us. For so long, we've been operating within a system that has never centered us. And yet, we’ve found a way to make it work. But have you ever wondered what a ...

Black women, it’s time to take a pause and consider this: the information shared here could change your life. Let’s explore an entirely new approach—one that prioritizes centering yourself and your personal healing. What if this has been the answer all along? Just as society has conditioned women to seek fulfillment through partnerships, what if the idea that being partnered is the key to happiness is actually untrue? What if the true happiness you seek comes from centering yourself? I’ve noticed a distinct divide: there are women who have decided to fully center themselves, and there are those still chasing the “fairytale narrative.” As someone who has chosen to focus on myself, I can tell you the value of this experience is unmatched. When asked to describe what it feels like, the best way I can explain it is that it’s a peace that transcends words. It’s an internal freedom, a sense of worth that nothing and no one outside of yourself can give you. This feeling is priceless. I often ...

It’s time to normalize prioritizing the nurturing of Black girls’ talents and allowing them to explore unconventional paths, rather than forcing them into traditional jobs. For too long, women and girls, especially Black women, have had their futures mishandled. I can speak to this truth personally. I’ve heard countless stories of women who, from a young age, were pushed into jobs long before they had the chance to even discover their true passions or what truly lit them up. This toxic cycle continues today, and I know it all too well because it was my story too. I remember being 16 years old, landing my first fast food job, and immediately feeling as if it was a matter of survival. It wasn’t something I had dreamed of or aspired to. It wasn’t a passion, it was simply a necessity. I needed my own money, and a friend who had gotten a fast food job helped me land one too. But once I was there, I quickly realized this wasn’t it. I dreaded going to work every single day. There was no finan...

  I recently received a thoughtful message from a reader who shared an insightful article with me:  “Gender and Racial Biasin Hiring in Tech” . As someone who has worked in the tech industry and witnessed the inner workings of hiring practices, team dynamics, and development processes, I can say that much of what the article highlights rings true. Ever notice, when seeking out tech opportunities, how often company “About the Team” pages feature one—or sometimes no—BIPOC individuals? My personal experience mirrors this. In the company where I worked for nearly five years, I was the only Black woman on staff. This experience taught me a valuable, albeit disheartening, lesson: these companies are part of the same systemic machine as other industries. The hierarchy and power dynamics remain largely unchanged, and the tech industry is no more a “safe haven” for Black women and girls than any other field. In fact, I’ve come to realize that no industry c...